If I could ever remember my phone, I will call bakery #2.
Bakery #1 is going to make me a sample of
the cupcake I had in mind for the wedding. I am already suspicious of them though, because when I say chocolate star, they hear gum paste star. What is gum paste? It sounds vile like fondant. I need him to understand that I would be happy with the ugliest cupcake in the world if it TASTES GREAT.
Anyway, if I have a star on the cakes, it will cost an extra $1 for EACH cupcake. After a few emails back and forth, I have discovered I can supply my own chocolate stars and avoid the charge. So that is what I will do if I go with this bakery.
I wish there was some sort of magical phrase I could use to get vendors to understand that I am not THAT bride! I don't want fondant or gum paste or delicate little sugar flowers. I want CAKE. Moist tasty cake. I believe in food, not architecture!
( And I start to ramble... )